February 12, 2011 by eharding · Comments Off
By Wesleigh Ogle
A small group gathered the evening of February 10, Thursday, in the Martha Proctor Mack Ballroom for Leadership With a Purpose, hosted by the SMU chapter of Destino. The Destino Movement is a nationwide student-led organization with the purpose to connect Latinos to God and one another.
Esmeralda Sanchez, a 2009 SMU graduate who started the SMU chapter of Destino in 2008, opened the presentation and welcomed the speakers.
“Just like the title of the event, we know that you’re here with a purpose,” she said. “We hope that tonight will be a blessing to you.”
The speakers, Dr. Gus Reyes and Jonas Gonzalez, both encouraged the audience to follow their dreams, be good leaders and build a relationship with God.
Seventeen tables were set up in the grand ballroom. When only ten people showed up, the plans changed and the gathering became more intimate.
Instead of standing on stage, Reyes and Gonzalez interacted with the audience. They told stories of their childhoods and how they became successful.
Reyes said his best piece of advice is to listen for God.
“Take that next step and get ready for the best ride of your life,” he said. “It’s scary, but you can count on him.”
Gonzalez, the president of Enlace, a Christian TV network in Spanish, spoke in Spanish and his daughter translated. He told students to find a job in something they enjoy so their occupation is their hobby.
When a student asked about changing majors, he said, “If you have to change and change and change, it doesn’t matter. But when you find it, let it be a life effort.”
Reyes advised college students to find mentors who are in the place they want to be in the future. He said to choose this mentor based on his or her character and integrity not corporate success.
The discussion then turned to leadership and what is required to be a leader. Gonzalez said a leader must have a message to influence others.
“If our life doesn’t have a message, our message doesn’t have life,” he said.
Reyes said leaders must help their followers reach their full potential. He said leaders sometimes make difficult decisions about people, but a successful leader helps others succeed.
However, leadership is lonely, Reyes warned.
“There is some loneliness about leadership that only leaders can know about.” he said. “The good news is that we have a God who can help us through that loneliness.”
Gonzalez had a less spiritual approach. He said a leader can be the boss, but not every boss is a leader. He said a boss looks for extraordinary people, while a leader looks for ordinary people to make them extraordinary. He also said a boss says ‘go,’ but a leader says ‘let’s go’ and asked the audience which they would rather be.
At the end of the presentation, Reyes spoke about being both a leader and a Latino.
“You are a global leader because of your heritage,” he said. “You see things differently… The United States needs you.”
Although the audience was small, the event had an impact on those who attended.
“It was reassuring that it’s ok if things change and… God has a purpose for my life,” Jacqueline Ross, an SMU sophomore, said. “I know that my journey will be blessed if I follow his purpose.”
Cindy Trujillo, an SMU junior, also felt reassued.
“It’s relieving to see that you aren’t the only one who goes through these struggles,” she said.
Destino meets every Friday from noon to 1p.m. in Hughes-Trigg Atriums C and D.